the one promise about life is that it ends

so the question isnt what will you say in this life
its not what will you do in this life

its what you wont say

and what you wont do.

and why you didnt play that note. and why you didnt kiss that girl. and why you didnt tell the one you love that you love her.

elvis taught me so much last night

be in a country band. be in a classical band. be in a rock band. thats what he taught me.

but most of all be not only great at one thing, like songwriting

but be great at something else too, like singing.

he taught me its not about what it looks like, its what the end result is about. for example, who says you need a drummer.

likewise: why not cover a keefe song.

why not cover a new yorker’s classic tune with your country band, even if youre a brit.

he taught me that sometimes super special shows dont happen in a sold out house.

because, again, it doesnt have to look like how you think it has to look.

however a pinks hot dog should taste a certain way, like, not cold, for starters.

after seeing elvis costello at the greek last night

my priorities have drastically changed

he taught me that theres somethign to be said about tapping into yr genius

and striving for excellence via the magic of creativity.

he turned this song inside out last night and covered Lou Reed, Hank Williams, and Elvis Presley. and then reinterpreted a few of his own songs, and beautifully went through his new record with a country band

and no drummer.

so great.

so great

so great

update from the pop n hiss comments:

Elvis Costello & The Sugarcanes setlist:

Mystery Train (Parker/Phillips) / My All Time Doll / Tonight the Bottle Let Me Down (Merle Haggard) / Down among the Wine and Spirits / Blame It on Cain / Femme Fatale (Lou Reed/Velvet Underground) / The Delivery Man / The Butcher’s Boy (traditional) / Jailhouse Tears* / Happy* (The Rolling Stones) / Indoor Fireworks / Hidden Shame / Dragging Me These Last Few Yards** / Friend of the Devil (Grateful Dead) / Everyday I Write the Book / Five Small Words** (with a coda of Buddy Holly’s Not Fade Away) / She Was No Good / Brilliant Mistake
Encore: Red Cotton / The Crooked Line / (The Angels Wanna Wear My) Red Shoes / Sulfur to Sugarcane / Complicated Shadows*** / The Scarlet Tide*** / The Race Is On (George Jones) / Alison (with a coda of Faron Young’s He’ll Have to Go)
* with Lucinda Williams, who wrote Jailhouse Tears
** unreleased song, title possibly incorrect
*** with T Bone Burnett

todays my buddy Chris’ birthday. hes 79

we met in the dorms of San Nic at UCSB way back in the day and we’ve both turned our lives over to the Lord and because of that our paths have been lined with beauty and joy.

we went to finals together last year thanks to the fact that Chris is a season ticket holder.

in fact, chris and i went to the first Laker game Ever at Staples, and we had schweet seats.

chris and jesus rob invented Thirsty Thursday back in Isla Vista and because of that we met many friends and randoms. fortunately we met young ladies as well. because when you have a keg and you brought a buck and yr own cup, how can you not make friends?

ah yes those were the days, but probably the most fun i had with Chris back then was skateboarding to class together, we are both college of creative studies grads, writing poetry all night, and then reading them the next day to the enjoyment of our class.

im sure anyone who saw us then would not think that chris would turn out to be a genius digital video forefather, whose work has been in every Tony Hawk skateboard game since the first one. and no one would ever think that id be an xbi chopper pilot.

despite his drinking, smoking, etc, my question is, how did chris get to keep his great hair?

happy birthday g

super crazy week in rock here in LA this week

ending with Sunset Junction!

see full list including ticket givaways at Losanjealous, but here are my standouts:

MONDAY
Depeche Mode @ Hollywood Bowl
Flaming Lips w/ Ghostland Observatory, White Dwarf & Stardeath @ Greek Theatre

TUESDAY
Elvis Costello & The Sugarcanes w/ Lucinda Williams @ Greek Theatre
Flaming Lips w/ Ghostland Observatory, Star Death & White Dwarf @ Fox Theater, Pomona

WEDNESDAY
Atmosphere @ The Palladium
Depeche Mode @ Honda Center
Tracy Chapman @ The Wiltern

THURSDAY
Depeche Mode @ Santa Barbara Bowl
J. Tillman (of Fleet Foxes) @ The Echo
Jedi Mind Tricks w/ MC Esoteric & Reef the Lost Cause @ El Rey

FRIDAY
Los Campesinos! w/ Girls @ El Rey
Steely Dan @ Gibson Amphitheatre (Performing Aja & the hits)
The 88 @ The Grove Apple Store (7pm)
ZZ Top @ House of Blues

SATURDAY
Steely Dan @ Gibson Amphitheatre (Performing Gaucho & the hits)
Sunset Junction (Mary Wilson, Spencer the Gardner(!), Sly & Robbie, Dengue Fever, Conor Oberst & The Mystic Valley Band, Nico Vega, The Submarines, and more)
The Cult Performing “Love” @ Club Nokia

SUNDAY
Heroes of Woodstock: Jefferson Starship, Canned Heat and More @ Greek Theatre
Los Campesinos! @ Detroit Bar
Steely Dan @ Gibson Amphitheatre (Peforming “The Royal Scam” & the hits)
Sunset Junction (Morris Day & The Time, Arrested Development, The Sonics, Built to Spill, and more)

crazy weekend

and now my fingers arent working

hectic morning so lemme say this in the 2 minutes i have before my next meeting

District 9 is good, not great, but it is amazing that they were able to make that movie for $30 million and people cant even build shacks nowadays for a million.

50 Days of Summer was ok. Barely good. Music was good. LA looks nice. But its an airplane movie at best.

Also happy birthday to my old college roommate, whose garage this was Saturday night at his beautiful home with his beautifuil family,.

ok gotta scram

ps soooo glad we got rid of Kyle Orton in exchange for Jay Cutler. Trade of the year.

hoover floormate spinscrub widepath floor cleaner

smallislandgirl: Have you seen The Ugly Truth movie yet? its my favourite movie so far this year..Have a great weekend.

i hate ryan reynolds. i hate this amazing body. i hate his good looks. and i really hate that he took scarlet johannson off the market. so theres no way im gonna pay money to watch him make out with sandra bullock all day. wait thats not the Ugly Truth? Fine then, i’ll go see it. although i hope the amazingly crappy 15% rating it got on rotten tomatoes is a typo.

Gage: When I was a child there were a few songs that made me feel weird and/or upset inside. Did you have any of those? Pink Floyd or Eddie Floyd?

even though we lived in the painfully dull suburbs of chicago, for some reason music was everywhere, especially in the school. my mom bought me a saxaphone in 3rd grade. i took lessons and was in band all through elementary and junior high school. and in high school she bought me drums and i was in the marching band in high school. meanwhile you had to sing in music class and play in the bands for graduations and all these occasions.

they always made us learn these cheesy 70s songs like the theme from Welcome Back Kotter, and this one thing from Cats. but at an early age we were given “The Wreck of the Edmund Fitzgerald” by Gordon Lightfoot. and after we learned it i looked at the first chair sax babe, kristan burke, and i said is this the saddest song ever? and she was all yep and creepy.

because of that, i think ive never had any music that makes me feel weird or upset inside. that all came much later in the xbi. specifically there was an incident as Led Zeppelin’s “in the light” was playing, and another time involving a crying nude girl and her friend who was laughing, and a scratched copy of the Smashing Pumpkins infinite sadness… double lp. particularly “1979”.

one summer i learned how to do a backflip on a trampoline in frisco while this kid played the 45 of the eagles one of these nights over and over.

adriel: love the bleachers. what do you do when you want something REALLY bad that you know you can’t have?

i convince myself that its a lame thing to want. and then i pretend that its actually cool not to have won the world series in over 100 years. i tell myself that it adds personality and mystique. also charm.

Sass: If it could only go one way, take the one you love or the one that loves you?

i wouldnt wish unrequited love on my worst enemy. not only are you not getting what you want but youre slowly changing yourself to try to fit what that person seemingly wants. we live on a tiny globe with billions of people. why would we ever settle for anything less than who makes us sooooooo happy. resorting for anything other than killer in a relationship is like going to the same crappy burger place for dinner every day. we’d never do it with food or drink but we would do it in matters of our heart? the most precious place? ridic. so yes id rather deal with a groupie any day and try to figure out wtf is my problem.

Douglas Arellanes: Love the new redesign. It’s like when you get a new car and it takes you a few weeks to figure out that the mirrors can be turned by moving that little switch – I’m still discovering all the cool stuff going on.

My question is this: Now that you have a new redesign on the front end, what’s going on on the back end? Is the blog and non-blog content finally unified into a single system, or is there one silo for the blogs and one silo for what used to be called “news?”

The reason I ask is that I haven’t seen too many places where the blog content is fully integrated into the paper’s other content. It’s something we’re working pretty hard on, though, so stay tuned.

something miraculous and transformational happened about six months ago that has quietly influenced how blogs are viewed at our paper. what happened was the metro desk, the largest group of reporters and editors, really took ownership of their blog, LA Now. local and city hall stories were filed through the blog first and then at the end of the day they were considered for the paper. plus you had the city editor running the blog. and since he knows every aspect of all of the traffic of that local news, he was able to put the best stuff on the blog as soon as it was ready.

it was the perfect storm of timely reporting, expert coordination, and a firehose of interesting and wild LA news at one url: latimes.com/lanow the result was millions of hits and a bulletride into the top echelon of blogs, the technorati 100 where it is currently #44.

while its a little trickier for some of the other desks to do it that way because they dont have the numbers of people to draw in gazillions of page views, i think the basic concept of what makes for a successful workflow is galvanizing as we speak.

Mike: Are you psyched for the new Tron movie?

no because this guy isnt playing Tron.

Dan: Is it just me, or do the people who scream loudest always seem to be the least educated?

no its usually those who dont spell very well. as someone who has had to read thousands of comments at LAist, and now approve hundreds of thousands of comments at the Times, i can tell you that its usually the people with the lamest arguments who really have no appreciation for the dictionary. you really appreciate it when people can keep it short and spell it correctly. meanwhile i write in all lowercase and grammar bad, so whats that tell you.

Keira-Anne: What was your favourite game for each of Coleco Vision and original Nintendo? Also, why?

because im an old man i was already seriously playing with girls when those two video games came out so i was not that interested in playing with the sweet 8-bit graphics of donkey kong and mario. also arcade palaces were at their peak during that time. here in LA there was Captain Video on Pico across where the Westside Pavillion now stands, and in Westwood there was a great arcade which finally closed down recently. so i was good.

g/d: is to like to link?
or to link to be linked?
a gift of a link to you and a like,
and one or the other for me please.

youre now #34. rock on.

timmay!!!!!: did you read today’s “Doonesbury”?

no. i liked it better when he hated the president.

lily: do you think i should get facebook?

facebook is slowly becoming the digital media hub of yr life. you can check in on how your friends are, their birthdays, what theyre liking. plus you can meet new people. but the most powerful thing i like about it is Facebook Connect which lets you sign in to other websites and blogs so you dont have to register there. as long as you have a FB account youre good. Digg is probably the best use of this feature. so yeah i think its a valuable site in 2009.

zona: which two actors, male and female, living or dead, do you look at and say, now THAT’S how it’s done?

that kid in gummo, and buster keaton. and of the two id have to give it up to keaton cuz he directed too. and of directors id say stanley kubrick and buster. people dont take their trades seriously. they dont aspire to be masters. those guys were damn masters. honorable mention for that dude who did buffalo 66. love that movie.

female actors id have to say vivica a. fox and charlize theron.

john wayne maioriello: could you ‘splain in detail how you made your famous photo essays?

first you need your own domain. then you need something like dreamweaver. then you make a page – put up a photo – say something funny – link the photo to page 2. then repeat except link the photo to page 3. then dreamweaver will send the files over to your domain via the ftp and shazaam you have a photo essay.

Andrea: What band/musician do really want to see play that you haven’t yet (living people only)?

there are several: christina aguelara, willie nelson, stevie wonder, van halen with david lee roth, john mellencamp, and page & plant.