the best thing about being a kid back in the day
was if you got taken to Farrell’s with all your friends.
these dudes in straw hats would come running out with a giant bowl of ice cream on a faux stretcher. bells would ring, people would shout. was there music?
these guys would run around the whole restaurant and place the bowl on your table. the large one was called The Zoo bc it had all these plastic animals in there and about 19 scoops of different flavors and chocolate sauce and whipped cream.
this photo makes the bowl look small. it was enormous.
at least in my memory.
which is fading.
this is a list of things i want to have worked on by 4/20
getting the photos that are missing on the busblog back on
the uber stories substack
moving hear in LA to substack
detailing the inside of the car
registering the car
getting my sleep schedule fixed
way more farting
i had the best day of the year last night (so far)
Weezer played a secret show and i never put in a request for anything.
i learned a long time ago not to ask for favors but this was different bc =w= was gonna play the blue album
i had taken karisa to the Memories Tour in like 2010? at the universal amphitheater and it was ok. but this was way better.
earlier this week Rivers talked on KROQ about why Keanu’s band Dogstar was gonna open and why it was important for them to play a small club to kick it all off.
if im lucky ill get to write about it for setlist.
afterwards i ran into Beth and Keith Shapiro and we had drinks
WHAT A GREAT NIGHT
fuck waymo and fuck how the media writes about it
Near the very end of this piece is the line: “Tens of thousands of humans could lose jobs in the future — from taxi to truck drivers.”
That is called burying the lede.
When you read stories about Waymo and other robot cars bum rushing the show, watch how good journalists and reputable media outlets treat these bots and their alleged inevitably in away that is so much different than how they write about ChatGPT being tested by Sports Illustrated, Gannet, and LAist
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It’s the Same exact thing, except this bot isn’t coming for their job, it’s coming for the struggling middle class gig workers grinding at all hours of the day and night to make ends meet. So it’s ok. And cute.
And “omg my backseat driving reflex is on high alert.”
While readers are thankful for all the details about how terrible these cars have rolled out onto the streets – smashing into people and property, clogging narrow streets of Frisco when they malfunction – and learn how the politicians claim to be concerned but magically these vehicles have appeared without any public consent, something’s missing in the narrative.
Namely how the humans who take these journalists to lunch and work and from LAX in the rain and to LAX in the dark – are being fucked by two new foes: lawmakers and now the press.
It took decades of voting and red tape and hand wringing to finally get first medical and then recreational marijuana in California – and we still can’t smoke a joint in a park or on the sidewalk. Meanwhile many cities have refused to listen to the voice of the people and have outlawed the sale of the Devil’s cabbage in their precious burb.
But robot cars on the streets? NBD? Get used to it? That’s the tone from every news outlet on TV, print and online. “Look everyone the rides are free this month!”
As great journos like Jon Healey, Ben Welsh, and Michelle Maltais and others are well aware, ChatGPT in online news is 1,000% easier to pull off than robot taxis.
Given a fraction of the seed money Waymo and the others have received even a dope like me could lead a team to create bots that could spit out “news” with precision SEO, tantalizing copyright free AI art to go with every story, and corresponding social media posts effortlessly deployed at the exact time the algo says they should be published.
But when the media writes about *their* precarious jobs being targeted by zeros and ones the tone is far more dark and far less giddy.
The entire entertainment industry went on strike less than a year ago over the fear of AI and ChatGPT replacing extras and screenwriters and the media supported that industry, their strike, and their cause.
That same media quietly cheered when SI folded shortly after it was revealed that they had been partnering with a startup built solely to replace human journalists with bots.
But robot taxis replacing humans and our Priuses? A yawn louder than a typical reaction from a Plaschke column.
The LA Times needs a regular rideshare column to bring home the human damage this technology can’t wait to sink its teeth into. A column where a not-so-humble driver takes fellow humans around this vast city and has human interactions with them and reports back who Angelenos truly are and shares examples of ways bots could never replace souls.
Yesterday I picked up a woman who needed to go from Mid City to Hollywood Presbyterian Hospital because she had a mild stroke and didn’t want to call an ambulance because she feared it would only take her to Cedars and she hated how long the wait at the ER was.
So when I arrived she begged me to come around to the alley to get her because walking was difficult. When we realized the back gate had accidently closed and locked, she had me walk all around the giant building to the front area and meet her at her apartment where I was asked to hold her as she gently made her way down her rickety staircase.
She smelled of urine. She was shaking. She yelled out a few times terrified she was going to fall. You’re not going to fall I assured her. I am right here.
When we made it across town she asked me to get her a wheelchair and help her out of the car and into the waiting room. Which I gladly did. Of course. This woman was younger than my mother.
There are things robots are great at. And there are some things the human touch is ideal for.
Carrying Angelenos around this beautiful town isn’t for everyone. And it sure as hell isn’t the place for an untested bot in 2024. Unless you want to find a safe space to light up, piss or puke.
Three things I do every time I read these curious stories in my favorite paper.
everything butt
it was oscar sunday, griffith park. two babes in their 20s sporting skin tight outfits heading to venice. first time to LA. from utah.
the best way to describe the outfits are aerobicise, parachute gear, no bra, white nikes. but mostly power rangers.and sunglasses.
because it was a few hours before the oscars, hollywood was a mess. roads were closed. demonstrators. clogged freeways, so i was more than happy to take a ride to the beach even though i would only get $28. fuck it. waze said it would only take 45 minutes.
i knew it was a lie. ended up being an hour but immediately we were talking sex drugs and youtube.
blonde in the back, 22, told me she wants to be a sugar baby “my tastes are very expensive. i need a sugar daddy who understands that.” she stated as her friend, pre med, also blonde but maybe more natural? thus darker? giggled, clearly having heard this proclamation more than once.
are you down for whatever from this man?
i mean if he takes care of me, i’ll take care of him.
you’re 22? how old are you willing to go?
40? maybe 42?
i hate to tell you this, miss utah, but the 40 year old sugar daddies wouldnt appreciate you. could you go older? wiser? easier to please?
50?
have you heard of anna nicole smith before, ladies?
they hadnt so i told them the tale. when it was over they were blown away. as was i. how did none of it ring a bell? the legend of anna has died with gen z? mama mia.
by the time we got on the 101 near coldwater miss utah had settled on 60 as her ceiling.
what if he wanted you to bring a friend or two home from the club? i asked
why would he want something more than what i can give? she asked, seriously.
lets pretend this man is truly wealthy. and has traveled the world. and has seen and done some things we cant even imagine, he might request some things that don’t make a lot of sense on paper, but in this uber we dont kink shame. life is fleeting.
fine, she sighed looking out at a wee bit of traffic as we approached the 405.
the ladies were headed to a bar in santa monica they accidentally thought was in venice.
so i had them change the destination on their app, which lost me a few bucks but who’s counting. they were on a mission to retrieve the blonde’s wallet which they had accidentally left behind Oscar Saturday because their outfits had no pockets
first time in LA you say? did the men of santa monica beach pay you any mind?
oh yes. free drinks all night. thats why we left without knowing we had no wallet, miss pre-med said. but ive been checking the cards online and no one has charged anything on them, so we are hoping the manager found it last night.
tell me about utah.
it’s terrible.
i hear it’s pretty.
this is pretty, one of them said while we cruised in the fast lane between the unusually green hills of bel air and brentwood.
we had established early that one was catholic the other was agnostic and neither had boyfriends. so i asked, whats it like dating mormon guys.
so weird they both said in perfect harmony then laughed
i hear they do everything but, i asked.
EVERYTHING BUTT, miss utah laughed and kept laughing cracking herself up. her friend joined in.
because they think only pee-pee to pee-pee sex is sex?
yes they said and asked if i had ever heard of soaking?
is that where the dude goes in slowly but then just lays there without moving?
yes! they screamed, startling me as we took the curve from the 405 to the 10 west, sin in our eyes, i mean sun.
but here’s the weird part, the blonde said, there’s a friend who’s The Shaker. she laughed
so hard she farted. then her friend laughed. i rolled down the windows and they laughed more. perfect day.
The Shaker, the future doctor explained, shakes the bed so neither party engaged in the lovin can be held accountable bc they arent the ones moving… they just happen to be on a bed being rattled around by the pal who has to feel a bit awkward.
we got stuck exiting onto the 4th street off ramp so i took off my cubs cap and said out loud, Lord, these are two lovely young ladies. please help them find their wallet, and eventually realize their dreams in the nicest ways.
A-men!
$12.45 tip.
been writing to people
sometimes i wonder if its a huge mistake but i doubt myself too much
my brain says i should write new people. people who might be down to go to the barn dance with me
sometimes its just nice to close your eyes and write what you really feel to the people who are on your mind and in your heart
of which i have been blessed with many fond memories
and incredible souls to write or call or send telegrams to.
today i ate a red meat burger from jack in the box
something i hardly ever do
and half way through eating it i felt a little sick but i kept eating
and i also go paid double something for something i really enjoyed doing
which is a blessing from above bc i need it right now whoo boy
mister and missus
sometimes you gotta wait. sometimes you dont mind it.
they were coming out of a sports bar. slightly older than the type youd see exciting such a joint. turned out he had just retired and she was a year away. he was from london. she from the valley.
both had been married before. neither thought lightning would strike twice but right away you could see these two weren’t the problems in any relationship.
they laughed. made space for each other. complemented. allowed each other to finish telling tales on the long trip due to traffic on the 10
we were going from the marina to pasadena. finally i was gonna make a few bucks that night. so i didnt mind waiting as she used her cane to get in while he kept the door open as if they were on their first date.
dont let my motorhead tshirt fool you, im a sucker for romance and love asking people about their first dates, first kisses, and first time knowing whoops ive fallen into something suddenly out of control.
i was in a tom waits cover band he said from the back seat, holding his bride’s hand. i wasn’t allowed to play any instruments back in london so when i moved in with some lads in echo park i picked up the bass and they taught me the rudiments by learning tom waits songs together.
omg rain dogs is one of my all time faves, i told them.
earlier than that, he said. ’70s tom waits, when he was a beat poet, the crystal gayle years.
i didnt have the heart to tell me that was my least favorite era but any style of the gravelly voiced poet is better than most. we crept along the 10 and i turned down the radio.
her friend brought her to the party which was originally a practice in my mate’s living room but people began to appear like this one and before you know it, it was a party.
the missus chimed in by saying i didnt tell him until later that i didnt know who the hell tom waits was, which is ironic because i worked at warners when he was signed to asylum.
do you fall in love with people and their little details? is it just a libra thing? it’s good i dont have a meter like an old school cab because when she said that i wanted to give them the rest of the ride free. which is reason a million i need to figure out what im doing wrong with the lottery numbers.
i knew she didn’t know tom waits, he chuckled.
sometimes the conversations get so sweet and tender you just want to sigh, which i did right as the traffic opened up and i gunned it around the curve next to the convention center.
what was your wedding song, i asked?
we had two, she said, but don’t tell anyone because we didn’t have the rights cleared.
her husband laughed, there were 50 people there. who would care?
she cared. still does apparently.
my favorite song since being a little girl was elvis’ cant help falling in love with you, but i really enjoy bruce springsteen’s version and he put it on tape for me when we were courting
the one i choose was ‘Little Trip to Heaven,’ he said.
‘On the Wings of Your Love,’ she finished.
so i said, hey siri, play little trip to heaven on the wings of your love by tom waits.
the muted trumpet set the tone of the old school romantic tune. you could almost smell the cigarette smoke in whatever studio he recorded it in.
or was it a bar
or was it a dimly lit living room apartment in pasadena where they’d later recreate that first dance moment while the warm santa ana winds sneak in through the cracks of the old house
$7 tip
works two jobs but no car
his name was Jamaal. picked him up at the Fox Hills Mall in Culver City. many call it the Westfield Culver City now, but Black folks overwhelmingly call it by its original name.
we were heading to the Ralph’s in nearby Inglewood. he asked if he could vape weed. i said just roll down the window so i dont catch a buzz.
my nigga he said, relieved.
met this bitch on facebook he said while exhaling an enormous cloud out the back window of the benz. rain stopped so i cracked open the moonroof a tad because i feared he smoked stronger stuff than i do.
my cousin knew her and told her i could get her some weed. but i had been staying in Lancaster not LA so i didnt have any, or any money, but when i saw her FB picture i could see she was fine so i told her id chill with her and we could share my last pre-roll. it was a big ass spliff of the kush. not this hood shit.
she was cool. lived in a house! kids toys were everywhere. but we turned on a little movie, smoked, chilled, immediately bonded. maybe i moved to fast. fucked up.
next time i came over she told me she has five kids. i could only hear two. but if you saw her body you’d ask where did they come from? not from that! she was fit. funny. and very giving.
very.
we didnt have sex for the longest but she took care of me every time. without asking.
why didn’t you have sex?
it wasn’t even like that. i felt a connection. maybe she was someones side chick. i dont know. i liked her.
after a while the kids started getting annoyed with me. asking when do you go to work? where are your kids? they were jealous of the time their mother was spending with me and not them.
that first night no one knocked on the door, but because they were 5 to 11 years-old, after a while one would knock, she would tell them to go play, and then 10 minutes later another would knock. i had to put a lock on the door because some of Bebe’s kids just walked right in.
but i kept going back.
could she cook?
that’s what got me. she could cook anything. with a smile. with dat ass swaying to the music, being all nice to the kids, all who had different daddies. she’d give me plates to go to work with. i work nights. i always had food. my stomach my head and my soul were right.
five kids, does that mean she was strict about the condoms or not at all strict?
no trojans, ever.
the ride was going to pay me $20. one side of town to the other. which meant he was paying probably $50. so i said, so wait you also work nights and you take ubers every night to these jobs? where’s your car?
so she had bad credit. i had good credit. she had no car and all these kids. she said she would put down the down payment on a mini van / suv if i put it under my name.
bet.
but after she got the car she sort of changed. and i didnt like it. but i was stuck. i had clothes over there, now a car. she wasn’t doing all the things any more. and i was like, how am i taking some other man’s son to football practice and picking up some other man’s daughter from school in the morning when i should be sleep?
and im not the king of the castle?
so i told her i needed to take a little time out and you know what that ho did? she put sugar in the gas tank.
No!
so i stopped paying the payments and let it get repoed. but here’s the thing. repo sells it and you owe whats left on the loan. i bought it for 25, they sold it for 15, so i owe 10.
how did they sell it for 15? wasn’t it destroyed?
her nosy ass neighbor told me about the sugar before i started it. so it never got in the engine!
what?!?!
anyway new subject. but thats why i usually have this other uber driver who ive worked out a deal with, he takes me back and forth for half and i give him weed. but he couldnt do it tonight, but im glad i got you. his car stink.
so theres this white girl at my other job at Ralphs. she lets me rub up against her. fine as hell. booty. eyes. everything. but married. she giggles and says ive been so good until now.
where do you rub her?
up against her ass, legs….
no, where in the Ralphs? arent there cameras everywhere? Black man cant be doing that with a white girl in the back room.
back room? this be in the aisles. any where nobody at.
worse! what about the cameras?
im a manager. who you think erases those tapes every night?
he laughed and blew a cartoonishly looking cloud out of the window.
i have a friend going through a lot right now
and i have texted her saying im here
in the past i might not have been here as much as i could have been
but since amber died im 100% here
which is ironic bc amber’s death taught me i can’t fix anyone or save them or get in the way of destiny or whatever you wanna call it
hopefully i made some of the last years of her life better than what her alternatives were
and i did love her and said so and bought her gifts and took her everywhere i could and i tried sooooo hard
i swear.
but sometimes someones number is just up
no one knows why them and why then
which is why im just trying to squeeze out everything i can from my head and heart bc one day i could go justlikethat
and in the meantime im here
while im here